Friday, August 28, 2009

Truth, Ties and Trauma
K

When you cheat, you would only be regretful one you are caught. When you cheat, you don't think of learning but GRADES. When you cheat, you'll do it again. When you cheat, YOU FEEL RELAXED EVEN IF YOU SINNED. When you cheat, you blame others or anything else but YOU. When you cheat, you still pray, right? When you cheat, you still have the guts to laugh. When you cheat, you're just guilty for a second then you'd do the same when the "NEED" arises.

And I know that YOU, are one of THEM. I am speaking of the truth and not through hypocrisy. And I want to change my fault point. And I am blogging this to instill in your minds the right thing to do. I AM A CHEATER ANG I AM NOT PROUD OF IT.

We always say that the trauma hurts more than the truth. But we don't know that it's quite the opposite. We often blame something else because of our failures. Things like fairness, parity, equality and other similar words. But don't you know that the fairness you want is WRONG? The truth is, there is no fairness in this world. Only God can give us true fairness. All people have biases. If we don't, there are no winners and losers.

The fairness you want is wrong. You want to be fair to the other one at all things: attention, impression, grades and reputation, which is totally wrong! We can only be fair to others if we are fair to ourselves. We should not cheat to get a FAIR SCORE. We should always give a FAIR FIGHT. Wrong view of fairness would cause fire.

If you think that you are deprived and underpriviledged than the other one, you should try your TRUE BEST to get the BIAS of the teachers. I once belonged to a so called SECOND SECTION of the SSC when I was in third year high school. Did I stop? Did I fail? Did I mind others? Did we, as a section, lose hope to excel despite our SECTION DISCRIMINATION?

No.

DO try to BE FAIR, not to GET FAIR. You are hurting us, especially me, when I saw your article. It was like we were not comrades. It was like there's an unhealthy competition in which only you are participating. It was really like blaming us for your fault. You didn't realize it, do you? Of course not.

One more thing. When you cheat, you lose confidence within you. It's like you feel so dependent to others. I once doubted my own knowledge when I plunged into cheating. And you would have a different disposition after the exam because of what you did.

One for all, and all for one. I always hear this stuff. But where is this when we are caught? Remember what I wrote:
When you cheat, you blame others or anything else but YOU. Where is the camaraderie? Where is the fairness? Hmmm?

I don't want to start a fight. I'm here to end it before it starts.

If we continue this, then we are not the GREAT BATCH, nor the GREATER, nor the GREATEST, not even GOOD nor BETTER nor BEST. Be convicted in yourself. Maawa naman tayo sa mga hindi nandadaya sa pasulit na nadadamay lang sa atin.

We are the WORST BATCH for now, for me. And I don't want it to end up like this.

I'm gonna make my move now. And like I always say. himuun nako ang tanan para DILI MAGMAHAY ANG MANGGA SA ATO.

Peace.

56 Comments:

At August 28, 2009 at 3:25 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, you have a point.

I think, fourth year students are about to see the real world, what i mean, outside the school campus.

There, you'll see, not everything or almost, are not fair.

Strive hard in your own way, in a right way.

 
At August 29, 2009 at 6:08 PM, Anonymous -_- said...

magbalik unta ta tung 1st year pa ta woi...
Innocent...
Maprinsipyo...
We used to treat cheating as a MORTAL sin....

 
At August 29, 2009 at 9:48 PM, Blogger Empress de Sade ;) said...

gosh.. hahaha.. hmm..
*speechless* O_O

 
At August 31, 2009 at 12:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

we know that all of the things we have done are absolutely and definitely WRONG....and i know your intention is to end all of the wrongdoings that we,altogether, did...but with what you blogged, i think you just opened your gates for war...i get your point too, but i'm sure that others won't see it like you did..and honestly speaking, para sa mga taong nasapul mo ng bala ,kahit na ang motto ng article na ito ay bato bato sa langit tamaan wag magalit, MASAKIT....sigurado. and in behalf of those who do not want a war to occur, please, do not react violently. don't let this article ruin your friendship...i suggest you relax, calm yourself and think carefully before you act..and to those "snakes" wag kayong magmalinis dahil mapaphiya lang kayo sa mga taong nakakaalam ng baho nyo.....

and remember, if everyone else turned their backs on you, you still have GOD who forgives, accepts and loves you still....

 
At August 31, 2009 at 12:30 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

we know that all of the things we have done are absolutely and definitely WRONG....and i know your intention is to end all of the wrongdoings that we,altogether, did...but with what you blogged, i think you just opened your gates for war...i get your point too, but i'm sure that others won't see it like you did..and honestly speaking, para sa mga taong nasapul mo ng bala ,kahit na ang motto ng article na ito ay bato bato sa langit tamaan wag magalit, MASAKIT....sigurado. and in behalf of those who do not want a war to occur, please, do not react violently. don't let this article ruin your friendship...i suggest you relax, calm yourself and think carefully before you act..and to those "snakes" wag kayong magmalinis dahil mapapahiya lang kayo sa mga taong nakakaalam ng baho nyo.....

and remember, if everyone else turned their backs on you, you still have GOD who forgives, accepts and loves you still....

 
At August 31, 2009 at 2:52 AM, Anonymous aaa said...

Reply to -_-

kachar ui.hah

 
At September 2, 2009 at 4:13 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

"I don't want to start a fight. I'm here to end it before it starts."
sa man ka dong oi. kabalo ka, wa na gud ni nga isyu. wa na gud. ay ambot lang. wala na ba? hehe. murag wala namay na isyu nga mga isyu isyu tungkol ani. nya muingon ka i'mhere to end it before it starts. kabalo ka, ehemmmm, kanang dili man kamo ang gipa ig-an sa artikulo nga gisulat sa isa sa mga taga del pilar, dili man, dili! ili gayod. akshuli, malain man jud and uban pag naay bias. pareha nalang sa pag hatag sa group project sa physics na astang dugaya na gihatag sa class rizal then gihatag sa del pilar the say before the deadline? asa ka magdangkung ana. so kinsa man ang gi blame ani? diba ang teacher? dili ang students.

nganong nag open pa man ka aing istoryaha oi na wala naman kaayo ni ginaproblema. pabida lang jud. patisoy. na! wa na ni!

 
At September 2, 2009 at 4:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

knsa ning anonoymous? wla man nagapatisoy ang nagsulat sa blog. pataka rman ka. or BASIN nasuya lang jud ka s author.

new way, i just want to open up something about a student in senior DOST class.

every time she passes to our room, she always says about something in our class. Like praising us of doing something good which is really OBVIOUS that she's too CONSCIOUS to herself,her section against our section.

i know kabalo nka kinsa ka.
unsa man ka oi.

ayaw pud pag ingun ana s amoa.
klaro man gud kaayo na lahi imong ginapasabot s imong ginasulti.

klaro ra jud kaayo kang --GUILTY!--

 
At September 2, 2009 at 6:44 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

weee :)
Canil dai ni . hehe . kabasa njd kooo . haha :))
0i, murag kaila ko aning last nag comment ai . hehe

Kaila pd ko semuhang gipasabot . hehe :)

 
At September 2, 2009 at 6:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Saaaaaan ! haha . Canil dai ni. kita na ko semuhang comment bai .

Whoa ! d lang q musaba . hehe :)

 
At September 2, 2009 at 6:53 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anaaaaa ! dili day ikaww ? hehe . sorii :) . pero murag kaila q sa giigo :)

 
At September 2, 2009 at 7:23 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Uh oh ! :)

 
At September 3, 2009 at 12:31 AM, Anonymous smsanch said...

I think it's time na for the Seniors to do their part. Siguro it's time for change. The right change naman this time.

 
At September 3, 2009 at 3:53 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

kaiLa ko anang gina igo ni anonymous na --GUILTY-- kuno.jehehe, og bai,kaning anonymous, wLa jud siya'y intention tung gina ingon to niya. sugod pa 1st day of cLass, gina.ingnan nko niya ana, og everytime mu agi xa gina ingon to niya. og bai c Lucious LawLiet diay ni.kaiLa nmn guro mo nko.jehehe.^.^ diLi mn sa ginadepensahan nko xa, fact Lng jud na akong ginaingon, og gina psabot sad nq sa iya na ma-misunderstood sa mga tao^.^ no offense mga pre. pro sa mutuo mog sa diLi wa xay intention^.^ i know her, kabisado nko iyng moves, jehehe^.^

 
At September 3, 2009 at 3:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi can you my blogmate ? =)) lol. Paghiusa mo oi. ayy cge padungog haha. manggradweyt nata gang. lingaw manang CHEAT. sobra lang jud. haha. AYY DUUUH oi. haha

 
At September 3, 2009 at 3:57 AM, Anonymous Name said...

"One for all, and all for one. I always hear this stuff. But where is this when we are caught?"


WE? kailan to?

 
At September 3, 2009 at 4:01 AM, Anonymous Name said...

"I don't want to start a fight. I'm here to end it before it starts."

i think ur making it bigger.

 
At September 3, 2009 at 4:09 AM, Anonymous Name said...

sugdi ang pgiging FAIR s imong srili. abi nmo fair pud ka? tama mn ka, unfair ang tnan. wla nlng unta ka ngblog2 ug ingon ani. gnapadako ra man nmo ang samok. kung gusto ka na walay samok. wala n unta nmo gpatulan ang isyu. mawala r mn ni. ang ktapusan ani, FRIENDS tang tnan. kron, ky gihimo mn ni nmo, ningsamok n nuon ug samot. naa n nuon mga tao na nalain tungod ani. opinion lng nako: kung mao ni imong MOVE n gina-ingon sa last part s imong blog. mali ang imong move. promise, ginapadako ra jud nimo! my pag wla nmo gpatulan!

 
At September 3, 2009 at 4:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

pls. lng pud basaha ning mga comment namo. at least iconsider nmo.

 
At September 3, 2009 at 4:24 AM, Anonymous jing said...

ahh. ok. peace na tang tnan ui. dugay n ta ng-uban. 4 yrs na. kron p jud n mhitabu?? haha. nbasa n nku. at last.

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:22 AM, Anonymous != said...

mklaro jud sa mga comment buh kung unsa moh na section. . . .. . .kung delpi buh o rizal. . . .

away2 pjud. . . pwo inig tingbuhat ug assignment ug project. . . amigo man dy jampong. . . jajaja


The End...

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:34 AM, Anonymous -_- said...

woah... 21 comments. haha
Di na ko mangintriga...
Ang point lang naman is...
It's time to change...
I can see we're all trying to make that change...
Challenge for the 2nd grading!!
Dapat wala juy maissue against us!!
Our teachers are doing their best, and we should too...
Dili man sa sipsip or anything... pero makainspire man gud ang ila gina ingon sa atu :)
Gamai na lang na panahon... college na ta...
Dapat at least ma-enjoy pud nato ang hayskul life, labi na ang senior years!!

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:34 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Haha . mao jd ! ! 0i, kinsa diay ning Lucious LawLiet ? hehe

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:37 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Gani ! dapat apilon c meljhan sa SUMMIT para ma enjoy niya ang senior life . haha :) pissss :)

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:38 AM, Anonymous -_- said...

lamat sa libre baii...
hahaha... di man na ako ginamean pero... pwede pud lol

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:39 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Oh ! sug0t na c mam sarilla kopyahanay sa assignment :) . haha

 
At September 3, 2009 at 6:40 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Haha . anlor ni ? hehe (-_-) ?

 
At September 3, 2009 at 7:00 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Gud nyt :)

 
At September 6, 2009 at 8:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

naai point .

ngeex..

wla lng..

ayaw muh cge englixh pna "ANONYMOUS" muh buh knang bisaya gni..

sunggo kuh ana....amigo ug amiga tang tanan..

sa hirap at ginhawa..

 
At September 7, 2009 at 3:54 AM, Anonymous systemoverload said...

grabe. gipataas man ninyo ang storya.
dili man mali ang naghimu ani na blog. tama man siya. grabe sad mu ui. nagmamalinis man mo tanan. kung naga bias ang teachers wa man ta mahimu. natural mana. kung dli jud makaya iopen ninyo sa teachers. dili kay mag away2 sa section.

 
At September 7, 2009 at 3:56 AM, Anonymous systemoverload said...

maghimu tag rules beh. kung mag comment mo pagbutang pud mog ID uy. dli kay anonymous, pila naman ka tao ang anonymous ang id dri., libog na kau.

 
At September 7, 2009 at 6:17 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Ay nakuu . haha . kinsa diay ni c system overload ? hehe :)

 
At September 7, 2009 at 6:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hahaha..
amawa ui..
dagahna buh nag.yaw yaw..
krn ra q kabasa..
ing.ani jud d.i pag masakpan?
gubot daun?
god..
what with the years you've survived TOGETHER..
dghan pa naman ug ga admire ani nga batch ke grabeh jud daw ang bond..
hahaha..

well?
gud luck sa ato!

 
At September 8, 2009 at 3:34 AM, Anonymous -_- said...

at least daghan ang nagrespond

 
At September 8, 2009 at 6:08 AM, Anonymous /*-+ said...

dapat jud undangon sa nang away2 kay dbay ni gemuel. . .bhalag mag.away mu paghuman. . .wa qy l nin.u

 
At September 8, 2009 at 6:08 AM, Anonymous /*-+ said...

dapat jud undangon sa nang away2 kay dbay ni gemuel. . .bhalag mag.away mu paghuman. . .wa qy l nin.u

 
At September 8, 2009 at 6:36 AM, Blogger xtina said...

"And be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another."
- Ephesians 4:32

so this is the controversial blog.. tsk3

for those who doesn't want war, just...

DON'T GIVE A DAMN

ahh... ba't kasi nakikialam pa eh.

haha. no offense author.

we have different point of views.

RESPETO LANG MGA BHAI.

wala lang sanang tapakan.

we should be helping one another not fighting with each other.

my dear friends,

let us not fight. who wants war anyway?

SO DON'T START ONE

i know that you get what i mean.

ipagpapalit nyo ba yung pinagsamahan natin dito?

(OA)

let us not waste our efforts and time fighting about something that would only break our friendship.

"If you can't say something nice, then please just don't speak at all"


cheating. is that really the issue here? then don't go anywhere deeper, for you might dig something else that has been buried a long time ago.


ending something that has not yet begun is like putting out the fire on a house that isn't burning

POINTLESS

" The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit."

Proverbs 18:21 (The Message)

" Words kill, words give life; they're either poison or fruit—you choose."

Matthew 4:4 (NIV)

it's just a matter of open mindedness, selflessness and acceptance.

imagine when you're in love, you're blinded by your emotions and even if your eyes sees something wrong, your heart and mind will always find it RIGHT.

people sees things the way they want it.

PEACE BE WITH YOU
=)

 
At September 8, 2009 at 6:38 AM, Blogger xtina said...

"dapat jud undangon sa nang away2 kay dbay ni gemuel. . .bhalag mag.away mu paghuman. . .wa qy l nin.u"

-atai ra haha

 
At September 8, 2009 at 6:58 AM, Blogger borrrti said...

hahaha... don't worry guyz... i'll make sure na mas halang sa mata ang sunod na blog... heeheehee...

 
At September 8, 2009 at 7:03 AM, Blogger xtina said...

"hahaha... don't worry guyz... i'll make sure na mas halang sa mata ang sunod na blog... heeheehee..."

-bless you borrr..

 
At September 9, 2009 at 4:34 AM, Blogger borrrti said...

hehe... ty xtin... anyways... happy bday gem and kev!

 
At September 9, 2009 at 6:39 AM, Anonymous gemuel said...

ahaha. si dulaya jud na buh! haha.

 
At September 9, 2009 at 6:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

it's so tiring to read those comments. better shut up

 
At September 10, 2009 at 4:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

haha.
kasamok dri woi.
dghan na keu nag comment.
pag xur namu sa inyung life ui.
hehe.

 
At September 11, 2009 at 5:42 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hoy! paghilom mo maestra ko diri.pakaulaw ra mo.saba mo kaayo ha!nadungog nako! bisag gisulat rani!

 
At September 11, 2009 at 9:00 PM, Anonymous -_- said...

46 na??
paghimu mug laing blog beh para lingaw :)

 
At September 12, 2009 at 3:31 AM, Anonymous ALDER hahahaha!!!! said...

Hala.... Kuyawa ug mga comment ui...

Naunsa mo???

La man intawon ginapadako ni bor ang is2rya.... Naa man jud xay point!

Nganung mangasuko man nang uban dra oi... hahayzz... yaw pud mu paila na guilty... tsk3

 
At September 12, 2009 at 7:47 PM, Anonymous bolxxxxter.. said...

hoie..

ayaw mu'g away2 buh..

hehe. knang mga mali man tang tnan oiee..

wa HONESTLY don't know what's RIGHT cox evryone has a point in everything they'd said..

di lang sah mgHINILASSSS oki??

naa mai POINT jud c tiborrr..

pro murag LAHI lng jud pgka.ingon..

NO OFFENSE MEANT REALLY..

dba?? mali man jud tang tnan,,

and also.. xA katong mga "COTTONMOUTH" dha..

pghilom mo oki??

tga DEL PI bya koh..

hehe.. mura pud mu'g true oiiee..

LIBOGG gud kaau mu.judge..

haha..

weew..

WALAI HINILASAY huh??

ug knang mu.isyu pa jud na ug CHEATING ron..

mkaLAGGOOOT ng in.ani buh..

COLD WAR..

hmm..

dili oud mag niLIBAKAY huh??

tnuod bya naa pui mga FEELING dha,,

DELPI ug RIZAL tma??

who knows apil d.i q haha..

knang GIRL na n.u gna.mean..

sus..

HILASSSSS ra ang ng.ingon atong CONSCIOUS..

pgxur dai..

 
At September 12, 2009 at 7:48 PM, Anonymous bolxxxxter.. said...

hoie..

ayaw mu'g away2 buh..

hehe. knang mga mali man tang tnan oiee..

wa HONESTLY don't know what's RIGHT cox evryone has a point in everything they'd said..

di lang sah mgHINILASSSS oki??

naa mai POINT jud c tiborrr..

pro murag LAHI lng jud pgka.ingon..

NO OFFENSE MEANT REALLY..

dba?? mali man jud tang tnan,,

and also.. xA katong mga "COTTONMOUTH" dha..

pghilom mo oki??

tga DEL PI bya koh..

hehe.. mura pud mu'g true oiiee..

LIBOGG gud kaau mu.judge..

haha..

weew..

WALAI HINILASAY huh??

ug knang mu.isyu pa jud na ug CHEATING ron..

mkaLAGGOOOT ng in.ani buh..

COLD WAR..

hmm..

dili oud mag niLIBAKAY huh??

tnuod bya naa pui mga FEELING dha,,

DELPI ug RIZAL tma??

who knows apil d.i q haha..

knang GIRL na n.u gna.mean..

sus..

HILASSSSS ra ang ng.ingon atong CONSCIOUS..

pgxur dai..

 
At September 13, 2009 at 5:33 AM, Anonymous ='o'= said...



away pamu pra lingaw

 
At September 13, 2009 at 5:33 AM, Anonymous ='o'= said...



lucky nine nlng daw

 
At September 14, 2009 at 5:24 AM, Anonymous -_- said...

mas lingaw kung naa juy pangalan hahaha
aii.. ala man pud dai koy name nu...
dah ui.. obvious man kinsa ko haha...

 
At September 14, 2009 at 5:51 AM, Blogger borrrti said...

hahahha... shaks man sad ta nin.u ui... ganina man gani kay teamwork au sa pangopya... ^_^...

lipay man lagi japon....

law lng jud nin.u idahilan ang sectioning bilang bias... kay magtigi jud ta dha...

 
At September 16, 2009 at 4:26 AM, Blogger Caye said...

Haha . pag sure oi !

dali ! lucky nine tah ! apil ko :)

 
At September 16, 2009 at 5:35 AM, Anonymous ='o'= said...


Ahw. . .

tama jud k borrr. . .


apir. . .

whahaha!. . .

 
At September 16, 2009 at 6:18 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

goahhhhhhhh.
napungottttttt ko..

 

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